This is one of those rare occasions where I won't point out an inexplicable behavior, the loss of common sense or a lack of general awareness. On the contrary, I will dedicate this entry to the young man who was kind enough to give up his seat to someone who actually needed it. Now I know there are a number of arguments that can be made for why no one should feel pressured into giving up their seat, but I won't spend my time and effort speaking on their behalf. It's just simply not worth it. Instead, I will try to describe an event that restored my faith in humanity - if only for a bit.
Just briefly though - If you think it is normal to be sitting down when someone who could obviously use your seat more remains standing, I'll simply state the fact that I personally think there is something seriously wrong with you.
Where were we? Oh yes, the event. Having paid his fare upon getting on the train, an older gentleman began scanning the cart for empty seats, all the while trying to maneuver himself through, holding as steady as he could even with the jerky motion of the rocking train. Having passed seven rows of young, healthy, able bodied individuals, he was still on his feet. I promised myself that if he still hadn't found a seat by the time he got to me, I would give mine up. I had just about given up on humanity, when the young man sitting in front of me stood up and insisted that the elderly gentleman sit down. At first, he stood strong, claiming that he didn't need the seat, that he was alright. However, after another few seconds of reassurance from the young man, the gentleman was in his seat.
After sending at least ten, maybe fifteen thank you's, the older gentleman said something that really struck a chord. He said "This doesn't happen that often, you know..." and as much as it pains me to admit this, I knew he was right.
So there you have lesson #25. Simply put, give up your seat to those that need it, especially when you know you don't.
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